#1. Find the RIGHT Coach.
This is an easy task to throw out there and probably one of the toughest decisions we can make at any given time. The notion that the right teacher will show up at the right time in our lives is only partly true. We have to actively participate in our search with a clear picture of what we want in order to attract the right people, no matter what role they are to play in our lives – and also to be open to them when they appear. Having a crystal clear image of what you need in a coach – what their area of expertise is, how they resonate with who you are & your vision, and how they work with their clients are all vital ingredients in your process. And while it’s important to check references or take referrals from colleagues you trust or leaders in your arena, don’t underestimate your gut when it comes to this one. If your best instincts are that someone is right – or wrong – for you, that’s a really important part of your personal, internal guidance system and should not to be aside. The right coaching relationship can be hugely impactful.
#2. Set your Goals about the Coaching Process.
Once you’re working with the right coach, be sure to be as transparent with them about what you WANT from the process as possible. Here are the ABCs to remember:
*Absolutely define your most important work and inspirations that you’ve created so far, so your coach can know who you are, and what your value system is
*Benchmarks and clear objectives should be defined as early as possible so you both have a clear path toward your goals, and finally
*Create a set of priorities that will clarify and focus your efforts and maximize your coaching time together.
#3. What would it take to become fearless?
Nobody goes into coaching because they want to stand still. Once you’ve set your goals, ultimately you’ll want to define — and then BECOME fearless about reaching them. Fearless people not only live amazing lives and achieve great heights; fearless people take on projects that the rest of us would run from. They challenge the status quo and create change. One of the key goals of working with a coach is to define that deepest desire or goal you have and then to outline a plan that either rises above or sidesteps the roadblocks and fears that get in your way. And once you’ve done all of that, one of the most important questions to ask yourself is, What would it take to become fearless about this project, right now?
Here are my personal coaching manifestations and intentions for each of you. Feel free to use this as an affirmative dialogue to have with yourself as you set about to find the right coach for your life and work, right now. If you’d like to inquire about working with me, personally, please visit my page on Coaching under Services on my web site at www.allaccessgroup.com or simply reach out to me directly at info@AllAccessGroup.com
You will have balance in your life. You will manage your time and energies so that you run your business, your projects, and your life without selling out or losing your way. You will discover the Power of Affiliation and Collaboration. You will step outside your comfort zone and take on projects that you once considered impossible. You will get past limiting beliefs, states of mind and behaviors that have been holding you back. You will feel true satisfaction and fulfillment that will spill over into all areas of your life. You will create a momentum for your work and life that is unstoppable. You will have more balance and energy.
